Hm, a bit over the top. I myself dont want to have it like that. I prefer to fade … but as that is not an option, I think I’m getting burried. Sober, no special stuff. After all .. when things go the normal route .. who would be able to come there? And even if there had been a few or a lot .. I’m not there so whatever .. if I”d been them I would not make a lot of fuzz about it and get on with life.
I’m not really into this large group morning stuff. If I morn I’d do it more privately, on the inside, there were it really hurts and in those specific moments. All those people telling you how sorry they are for my loss … not my cup. I see such a thing as an extra burden, not really something I’ d have wanted to go through.
My connection with the ones I lost will be more on the inside .. I dont forget about them, they pop their head in my mind from time to time (annoying that can be). They do tend to stay alive on the inside.
that’s amazing!
Hm, a bit over the top. I myself dont want to have it like that. I prefer to fade … but as that is not an option, I think I’m getting burried. Sober, no special stuff. After all .. when things go the normal route .. who would be able to come there? And even if there had been a few or a lot .. I’m not there so whatever .. if I”d been them I would not make a lot of fuzz about it and get on with life.
I’m not really into this large group morning stuff. If I morn I’d do it more privately, on the inside, there were it really hurts and in those specific moments. All those people telling you how sorry they are for my loss … not my cup. I see such a thing as an extra burden, not really something I’ d have wanted to go through.
My connection with the ones I lost will be more on the inside .. I dont forget about them, they pop their head in my mind from time to time (annoying that can be). They do tend to stay alive on the inside.
You’d wanna be sure the person is actually dead…
Which probably goes with any cremation now that I think of it.
Amazing! I love the anatomical theatre